Do-Overs Are Allowed.

πŸ“£A public service announcement to you or anyone who needs to hear it today…

πŸ‘‰In life, 9 times out of 10, Mulligans are allowed.

πŸ‘‰So are do-overs… as well as going back to the starting gate… as well as pulling over to the side to reset or even re-route.

πŸ‘‰Resting is allowed. Taking a breather and a short break is allowed.

βœ‹So, if you are not where you want to be at the official beginning of a new season (depending on where you are in the world).

It’s ok. There has never been a better day to start (or start again).

πŸ‘‰You know what else is allowed?

πŸ‘‰Giving yourself a pat on the back for riding through hard times both in and out of the saddle.

πŸ‘‰For caring for your family above your dreams in this season of life.

πŸ‘‰For the girl with big dreams saddling up in 100-degree heat or freezing cold responsibly pressing on.Β πŸ™Œ

πŸ‘‰For those chipping away and not giving up on the horse who is having a hard time connecting with people.Β πŸ™Œ

When life feels sweaty and out of sorts…

A pat on the back and a big hunk of giving yourself grace are allowed.

What you need… it’s most likely allowed. YOU just need to allow it.πŸ™Œ

So if at the (almost) end of the first quarter of the year you need to cry “MULLIGAN! I need a do-over!”

πŸ›‘Please take a hot minute and give yourself the grace of starting now.

It’s important. YOU are important.

What makes you happy is important!

Start taking action…

βœ…1. Get out your calendar, of course, I would love it to be our Equestrian Extraordinary Life Planner but the truth is any planner or calendar will work for this! Don’t let anything hold you back.

βœ…2. Schedule in 20 minutes 5 days a week.Β (Your sessions will expand but this gives you a foothold to get started)

βœ…3. Keep these appointments with yourself like you are paying someone $1000 an hour– it will be that transforming for you over time.

βœ…4. If you would like more accountability and ideas for what to do in your horse time & a community of 2000 horse girls to support you…

come join us in our Extraordinary Horsemanship Challenge you can get the details here


… hint: you can join in for as little as $1

πŸ’₯I am not trying to sell you on anything but this- not giving up on youΒ & what makes you happy if you are feeling behind. Know this. YOU CAN do this with a simple calendar, it is just easier to ride with a herd and to face life’s obstacles together.

βœ…5. If you are a part of the challenge and have not started yet please scroll way up to the top and see our new life rules!

Lol Mulligans- Do Overs – Resets- ReRoutes- and back to the starting gates are allowed.

See you at the (Re)Starting Line.

❀Love you.

Jenny and my little herd, Raven, Charlie, Grace, Ryan, Will & LuLu too!


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I’m Jen.

Most days you will find me with a coffee in one hand, hot pink manure pick in the other with my mind bubbling over dreaming up ways to help my horse girl sisters find their true selves & ride their best life every. single. day.


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